Why do you want your goal? We already know about the pain and pleasure aspects. These can be part of your purpose. What can you do or be or have, when you have reached your goal? If it is a long trip to your goal, you better have enough fuel to get you there. Otherwise, you’ll never arrive. Your purpose is the fuel in your fuel tank. You need to fill it and sometimes even refill it. Think of everyone in your life who will be positively affected by your achieving your goal. Write each one down and how each one’s life will be better when you reach your goal. Additionally, how will it impact your own life?  There is much more to this and we can consult about it.